Last Updated on September 30, 2010 by Dave Farquhar
I went to a funeral visitation yesterday. One of my colleagues lost his dad early Friday morning. Visitation was yesterday afternoon, so I made a point to drive up there.
His dad was 80, a pillar of the community, and from the number of people there, pretty obviously a lot of people are going to miss him. That’s a good feeling. I know. I lost my dad more than seven years ago.
Alan asked me a couple of questions. “I thought I’d heard you lost your dad already.”
“Yep. In 1994.”
“I miss him. I’ll bet you still miss yours, don’t you?”
“I do.”
“And I’ll bet it comes in spurts?”
“It does.”
I didn’t have anything profound to say to Alan. He could tell I understood. I think. I hope.
“Don’t stuff your emotions. That’s the worst thing you can do. You’ll miss him, so miss him. And,” I looked over in the direction of his dad and at the crucifix sitting in the coffin, “You’ll see him again.”
David Farquhar is a computer security professional, entrepreneur, and author. He has written professionally about computers since 1991, so he was writing about retro computers when they were still new. He has been working in IT professionally since 1994 and has specialized in vulnerability management since 2013. He holds Security+ and CISSP certifications. Today he blogs five times a week, mostly about retro computers and retro gaming covering the time period from 1975 to 2000.